~Driving storyline from me & few friend's perspectives~
It is very important that in life before you look into people's life it is very important that you first of all look into your own life to see the changes or your own opinion before going for other person's opinion and in this particular case I would like to brief my storyline and how I have been shaping the way I see loans from a very long time which in one way or the other added to my way of living. Before I will dive into few people's perspective, I have experienced life a little and have met great people of different personalities and different way of handling things and so I will explain all of that as well as few secrets that backed me up. In the case of taking a loan I will be brushing few people's opinion on this including mine coming first.
My storyline and how I have handled loan
Right from when I was growing up we were told not to get any loans and I remember my parents will always tell us a story about our grandparents storylines and to scare us away from borrowing people's properties or even going for a loan. That has always been in our head since it was a way of living while growing up as children. If there is one thing that is general in this entire world is that a child grow up the way he/she is being taught and so the very first school for every child is from home and that is where we hear people say things like "This child lacks home training" because home is your very first training ground and whatever is being built on you from home sticks with you forever, even if you grow up to some setting stage to try to relearn some certain things, there are always most things that are going to stick with you that you learnt from home and you are likely to pass them on to your kids.
While growing up we where always scared of borrowing people's stuffs or even thinking about loans as we have been warned over and over about it, and as I gradually started leaving on my own, that thought never stoped as it was always an inbuilt storyline for me till today as I type this, I have never had loans. I try my best to work so hard to make sure that I get whatever I want, and in my case it has always been easier for me since I was getting support from my parents before I started the journey of supporting myself at some stage. With this proper opportunities that I have had, I believe loan will be the list of things that I will want to think of as I somehow have a lot of support that is backing me up, so with someone that doesn't have such opportunities, I can't tell them not to borrow people's properties or go for a loan to support themselves.
Few friend's storyline and how they perceive loan
After leaving home and mingling with few people in life I have actually come across people who are business-minded, and people with good qualifications and talent and so one way or the other we have had some discussions concerning loan taking and how it can affect one which actually leads to me understanding loan from a different perspective other than the one I learnt from home. After listening to so many people I came to the understanding that some people actually go for loan in order to establish their businesses, and for others they go for the loan in order to settle some urgent emergency situations which somehow might be very difficult to pay back since it was not invested. Others go for loan in order to support their educational process and many more reasons.
Conclusively it is now clear why they said "do not judge a book by its cover" because now I have come to the realisation that many people go for a loan for different reasons and most of the reasons are genuine reasons and so my perspective of how I see loan have shifted a bit compare to the very beginning but still, I strongly have built this not going for loan habit and I hope that in as much as I try my best to keep pushing my work, I wont have to go for loans as I strongly respect my parents decisions and at some point I have also understand the disadvantages as well and so I stick to the not going for loan habit until the need arise.
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