My Wedding
Many human way to celebrate a happy day. One of them is to party or celebrate events in his life. It is an instinct of a human being to share feeling happy at all the closest people, family and friends.
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One of the moment party/ celebrate a very nice memorable for me is about my marriage. This is a gift that God given to me. Because, after 3 years I was dating my husband, we finally anchored to begin a new life into a pair of husband and wife.
This celebration we are doing step by step of a very long, conflicts are incessantly coming until we finally get through it all and culminate in marriage.
You know, before I decided to marry him, 3 months before my mother died and many left a message about the dream wedding for his daughter. The kid who does not want to appease her Mother even though they had none. I insisted to continue the celebration of my marriage according to the will of my Mother.
Time before the wedding arrives, I feel depressed, sad and happy. All blended in the heart and mind. Why not? This wedding I dedicate to my Mom.
The day nears for my wedding which was held on Saturday, 5 February 2017, with a variety of the same preparation once a lot of my time. Ranging from setting up vendors, MUA, a provider of music and others. This makes me even more happy, because I want all present in my wedding to feel comfortable and feel the happiness that what I feel.
This Moment also make all of my family that much to come and bless the both of us. Staying in our house is narrow, but it feels spacious because of all of the family come no stopping constantly to give the vibes positive, tells the story about a lot of things in the past that make us laughing and expressing happiness.
Not only that, when the night before the wedding, it was a night I won't forget. All of the family to give me advice, messages and prayers for me in the future when it becomes a wife. Emotion, mixed with the happiness unforgettable. Moreover, I remember once, when my Father convey a profound message, she said she would lose me as a young girl she loves, but my Father will be happier when I found the one for me who can be hopeless. Can't imagine when that night I cried in the arms of my Father.
Indonesian Habit of Wearing Traditional Dresses
There are the most funny moments of celebration of my wedding and this is actually a moment that I cannot miss. I have to wear 2 custom in one my wedding day.
Javanesse Dresses
Karonesse Dresses
As you all know, the wedding party in Indonesia is very complicated with many customs that must be followed.
My mom has a blood Karonesse and my father has the blood of Javanesse.
To satisfy both sides, I have to wear 2 traditional dress, initially I was annoyed with this because it makes me complicated to wear it. Moreover, this is the suit rental. But finally I realized, that this dresses can create a second family to be happy, so even though the shirt that I'm wearing is very cute and complicated, but I'm satisfied when my family smiling wide.
Panggih Procession
There is one very interesting event at the time of my wedding, which is the identity of the wedding customs of java, namely panggih.
This event is quite unique, at which time my husband came up with to bring ‘Bale’ and ’Tepak Sirih’ then the bride and groom with Javanese gamelan that led to the altar. This is done after the event the marriage contract has been completed.
Then when the procession was held, a lot of advice and prayer given by the adage, teachers and parents for the provision of the wedding.
Tell this makes me want to go back to that time..
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