Good humor = Everything simpler

I consider humor to be one of those things necessary for life. It makes everything much simpler, lighter to carry. Once a friend of mine was talking about what an ideal relationship would be like, he was gradually affirming that it didn't matter much who his future partner was (taking into account of course that this person had integrity, values and principles) as long as he enjoyed good humor, liked to laugh and make people laugh, because for him that was vital in a romantic relationship (although also for friendships or family relationships). I think I couldn't agree more with that and his words echoed in my head for a long time.

I have always been a very serious, somewhat shy and reserved person. Sometimes I take things very carefully (with tongs), as I don't usually take things so lightly because for me the vast majority of things should be treated with caution (and seriousness), but I noticed over time that including some humor in my daily life made things much easier. So I was including that in myself, a little bit of humor and the truth is that (for almost any context) things change for any context) things change when we take those situations with more tranquility, with optimism and some laughter because honestly, making hard faces doesn't help much to solve a problem either.

Many of my friends consider that I have a good sense of humor because I laugh at everything almost all the time and I also enjoy joking around with them. The reality is that it is also a mask that helps me get through life. That doesn't mean that my feelings are no longer sincere (that I don't feel genuinely happy during those moments of laughter) I just point out that I am someone who is more sober, but admits that I can dedicate a good part of my time to humor, to laugh and make people laugh. I'm trying to change, I'm still forming certain things within myself and I think it's better to admit that we don't always have all the answers to everything. It's part of humor, to laugh at ourselves (how absurdly complex we can sometimes be and how simple everything is at the same time).

Finally, including humor in our lives creates pleasant, memorable moments and improves the relationships we have with others and for ourselves. Self-flagellation with an eternal seriousness about everything leads to being very inflexible. I admire those who have a good sense of humor because it requires intelligence, cunning and a lot of honesty. So let's laugh a lot and smile more. As they say; life is a tragicomedy. Without further ado, thank you very much for stopping by, see you next time. Hugs.