I found this particular topic very interesting and that's why I chose to write on it. Life is full of uncertainties and no matter how we want to get prepared for it, it still happens anyway. However, this is not enough reason to not make extra effort in different aspects of life, at least, that's what I believe. So, if I were to choose between these two options, I would rather plan my life put and be in charge. Life will happen anyway, and I will figure out a way to handle it.
I wouldn't just leave life to throw whatever it want to, at me while I just accept it all and do what I want with it. Life is too short to not take risks, and to not be in charge of one's life. I do not even want to believe that it is entirely possible for a human to just 'go with the flow' with Life. I mean, we all get to points where we have to make decisions and be there for ourselves.
There is this saying that goes 'your life is in your hands', so basically, we are meant to be in charge. I do understand there are overwhelming periods where one just doesn't have the strength to do this, but that's the beautiful thing about life; the phase will surely pass.
In the last few months, I have made a lot of decisions and done a lot of planning. This doesn't necessarily mean that I got to figure it all out, but planning ourselves actually gives one a kind of map to follow. So as not to get confused, frustrated and burnt-out, it is highly needed.
The past few days has been in a sort of cycle that I don't find very welcoming. I sleep late, wake up late, and once I am up, I start these chores that doesn't seem to end. During my breaks, I am unwinding on social media and before I know it, the day would have ended. I didn't set daily goals or have my day really planned out, i was just going with the flow. I was not growing in ways I want to, then I knew I had to do something.
I have this planning book where I can make a daily to-do list. If I stick to it, I am sure I will see tremendous change very soon. I will feel more fulfilled because I will be able to achieve other things. Just going with the flow actually leaves one confused and lost, and I wouldn't want to make myself go through that. I prefer to plan it out, and even if things do not work according to plan, I will try another way.
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