What would I do if this were my last weekend?
The truth is, I've never really thought about this before. I'm not someone who do wells on such topics. However, it's good to ponder on it because in my country, you're bound to emigrate sooner or later, so an ultimate weekend is inevitable.
So, I took some time to think, and I'll share my ideas with you.
The first thing I would do is prioritize the most important things in my life. In my case: my family, my partner, and my closest friends (whom I can count on one hand).
Without much hesitation, the first thing I would do is gather the whole family together. There's nothing quite like a family reunion, so having them all in one place is a must for me. At that moment, I would simply ask to reminisce about all the moments we've shared, how we've overcome life's challenges, and managed to stay a united family.
Of course, a final game of dominoes wouldn't go amiss, and knowing the competitiveness of my family, I think it's obligatory. A toast to bid farewell and wish them good luck would be the perfect ending to a memorable evening because when the family gathers, everything is right in the world.
Above all, I would express my gratitude to each and every one of them for everything they have done for me and for their contributions to my personal growth. Especially to my parents, who have sacrificed since as far back as I can remember to provide me with the best possible life, teaching me countless things along the way.
In addition to the family gathering, I would also spend quality time with my closest friends. We'd have one last wild night out, creating unforgettable memories and cherishing the beginnings of our friendships. We'd laugh, share inside jokes, and reminisce about the silly and meaningful moments we've shared throughout the years. It would be a night to remember, strengthening the bonds that have shaped who we are today. This night would culminate with us sitting in a peaceful place, sharing a bit about life and future plans.
These two gatherings are something that cannot be missed for me. If I am the person I am today, it's because my family and friends have shaped me in that way. I have so much to be thankful to them for, and that's why they cannot be absent during this last weekend.
And now, for the final day, not because it's less important, but because it's how I wish to spend this last moment, I would ask my partner, my teammate in life and in adventures, to accompany me to a secluded beach or countryside.
Upon arrival, we would prepare a meal together. Of course, our favorite dishes must be included – the flavors of Syria and Cuba merging for one last time. We would raise a toast to all the time and experiences we've shared, the memories that will stay engraved in our hearts, and the ones we may have forgotten due to the twists and turns of life. We would watch the sunset, a pleasure that we both enjoy.
Being in that moment, just the two of us, talking and looking at each other with the uncertainty of tomorrow. All leading up to one night together, one last night of... well, you know.
And as Monday morning arrives, the time to depart, I would bid farewell to my partner and tell them with utmost certainty that we will meet again soon to continue living this thing called life. To my family and friends, I would assure them not to worry, that wherever I go, I will fight to make their lives better.
It's not worth it for me to live well while my loved ones are suffering, so wait for me, because it will all be worth it.
If it were my last day on this planet, I would want everyone mentioned in this post to remember me for as long as possible when Monday morning comes and I am no longer here. I hope they remember what we did, and if they do, then everything will have been worth it for me.
I'm not someone who often thinks about this topic because I like to make the present count, to squeeze the most out of my days, to live as many experiences as possible, and to give everything I can to those close to me. In other words, to make my life and the lives of those around me something unique, so that when the end comes, they know that it was all worth it.
This #weekend-engagement has helped me reflect on a topic that I otherwise wouldn't have delved into, but the main effect of this topic is that if before I made my present count, now I will do it even more so.
As the weekend comes to a close, I would bid farewell to my partner, my teammate in life, and my partner in crime. I would assure them with unwavering confidence that we will meet again, continuing to live a life filled with love, adventure, and shared experiences. To my family and friends, I would reassure them not to worry, as wherever I go, I will strive to make their lives better and honor the bonds we share.
Ultimately, I believe that life is about making every moment count and leaving a positive impact on those around us. This reflection has reminded me of the importance of cherishing the present, making the most of every day, and creating meaningful connections. As the saying goes, "Make life count, and don't just count life."
I hope you enjoyed this little post filled with emotions. Remember to express your gratitude to each and every person who has contributed to your growth.