What's the worst weekend you've ever had and why? Use your own photos.
The worst weekend I had ever had is the weekend I was deprive of my husband, it was so hurting and I got angry with everyone and everything around me, to worsen the matter, my husband is a kind of person that goes silent on everything especially when I'm angry about what he did, gosh! Who does that? The silent thing; only my husband can do it.
You know, we had plans for the last weekend in December last year,so I took my kids to my parents on Friday, hoping to rest, chat, and be together Saturday and Sunday. You know, it was my dream weekend, I just wanted a time out with my husband without the kids since it was as if I was always fighting for his attention with the kids. My kids will always make me understand he is their daddy so I should allow them and my husband will just laugh, give them all the time, attention and everything and I will just lay with my phone trying to take my attention off them.
Going out some days and coming back with enough gisting to share with hubby and you are shocked when the attention is not even on you as a human I do feel jealous and most times query him about it but he will just say they are your kids so why get jealous.
So on this weekend, it was supposed to be only me and him, thank God that day we had low battery so we couldn't access the internet but can only pick calls and make one when we wanted to.
Since the kids were not around we woke up late by 11am, I rushed to the door on waking up since I forget that the kids were not around, then I had my memory back and I smiled, went back to bed picked my phone and I saw 10 missed calls, guess who called? My father-in-law, in my mind am like why this missed calls from him I knew nothing happened to him or the wife but I just became dense over it.
When my husband was awake he saw five missed calls in his phone, he called back as a daddy beloved and they told him to come to the house and help them fixed a generator, in my mind, is he an electrician, why can't they call someone else to do it today of all days. Without wasting time, my husband was already dressed, and I asked best,what of our plan for today?" You know what he said: i will be back soon, let me just assist them.
In as much as I was burning up inside me I hated my father-in-law for this,he saw I was angry but his parents need must be met so he left to return soon according to him.
By 6pm, my husband was still at his parents, I was so angry, called several times no picking up, so I gave up. By around 10pm he came back so tired and exhausted with his I'm sorry and I just took my bag and rubbers went out to the market to sell, came back by 2am in the night.
On Sunday it was all church, his beloved parents call him to remind him of his discipleship class in the evening so after church, I took my bags to my parents there I played, chatted with my siblings and let my mind rest.
It was not as planned and it became my worst weekend for the year since then I stopped making plans with my husband because I hate disappointment.