Hello everyone, am happy to be here and i will be contributing my response to the weekend engagement community challenge that i choose from which says👇🏾
> are you a person others can depend on or are you dependent on others
First off been dependable to me means someone to trust, to be there for and to rely on.
Naturally as a human I was born with and ability and that is to listen.I can listen to any conversation you have to tell me for hours with out getting tired or showing sign of brain drain.So for this reason friends and family also run to me all the time cause they know am someone who will always give them my ears to listen
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Some times I feel like that one of my calling, cause I can’t just explain it have been around people and a situation came up and everyone stood up and i and the person who need help was remaining on sit, and guess what after she spoke to me she said
all i just wanted was for someone to just here what am about to say so as to free my mind and you did, you just saved my life I wouldn’t have been able to sleep
I felt so much joy in me even though at that moment I couldn’t express it.been someone dependable that people could call or chat or talk to make me grateful for having that ability. And also able to share your own experiences with them is what I call healing.sometimes just a word could change everything.I am happy to be that person people can depend on, call me any hour of the day I am ready to listen to you
This has affected my life in such a way that people don’t need to know if I care or not they just want me to listen to them and it make me always want to be a better person at that and it set me apart from every other of my friends and family and I am happy about it
Thanks for reading