Dear friends.
To begin with I congratulate all men who with commitment assume the role of being a father at every stage of their children, may God give them much life and health to continue on the path.
In the challenge 158 select children (two):
Friends having children is a decision that we cannot take lightly, since it changes our course if we are responsible, planning them is very important so that the infant does not go through need, it is clear that when God sends them for something it will be, all are experiences that we must face and assume.
All at some point according to the maturity of each woman or man, born by maternal instinct that link, either by direct contact with our nephews or when we see infants in the street with their parents and their expressions are so touching, that's where in my case I long to share my life with a mini me with all that it presents.
How it comes and with whom, it must be with the person we choose or love and being together to give it a stable home is very crucial so that it does not grow up insecure.
I wish to have a couple of children, who give me a reason to fight every day, I see myself in a mirror with my little nephew and his little face fills my heart with nostalgia and joy at the same time, a being so small changes our outlook with just his smile and eyes so bright and innocent, that you wish to have one of your own, to build your own family.
That turn we take as parents, I imagine, is a myriad of steps covered with great mutual learning for both the baby and the parents, in the coexistence and relationship of the characters of each gene, as the infant grows and absorbs each behaviour.
As for the challenges, they are multiple, firstly because I am delicate in my uterus and it would mean taking great care of myself in the process, although my perspective is to continue working until I can no longer do it, but everything is in God's hands.
My gynaecologist told me to take folic acid regularly and to do my homework on my fertile days until I conceive.
I am open to the possibility in spite of the economic situation that is plaguing Venezuela, whether the situation changes or not, our offspring must continue and no one lacks God.
I can imagine the amount of cravings that I would get, if at the moment without being pregnant I would eat chocolates, coffee, cakes filled with meringue, a diabetic sweet attack in the afternoons, I suppose it is because of the stress that I am subjected to on a daily basis.
Being pregnant I would gladly eat all the necessary cravings, I would take care of myself until I see the birth of my first born with lots of love, although honestly I am a little scared, I suppose we all are at some point.
The arrival of childbirth, an action that combines a wave of feelings between fear and joy, to meet the desired baby, but the other factor that alarms us is the medical negligence that we face daily, everything in God's hands I leave my destiny.
When you come out of this great risk with a positive mind, comes the first contact with the baby, where his little eyes will be your lights for life.
After that, their care would be my priority, with all the logistics involved, their vaccinations, their consultations, their medicines, their clothes, food, studies and the most relevant and crucial, the love that we all deserve.
Late nights, tiredness, stress is part of adult life with responsibility to their children, attachment to children more than to life itself and the desire to prosper for a better future is the vision of many.
Every head is a world, for me the meaning of family according to my values is expressed in the previous paragraph, grateful to my parents for giving so much and waiting for grandchildren on my behalf.
A pleasure to be part of another challenge, that every weekend helps us to reflect on what we have done and what we want.
I used canva and the free translator deelp as my language is Spanish.
