Hello, dear HIVE family, it is a pleasure to be part of this contest, I am a first timer and my desire is to soak myself in the field that surrounds us, with the questions exposed I identify myself with the first option.
In my opinion, private and public recognition goes in different areas, whether in the professional, family, friendship and couple relationship as the case may be.
In the professional sphere, public recognition would be ideal because your work is valued by your superiors and that encourages you to innovate.
It is advisable to work in your professional area, but there are circumstances that prevent this from happening, being in a country where instead of valuing your human talent, they recruit people who are not trained for it. But that does not prevent you to grow in other areas, since everything is training and should be exposed your achievements, and then climb positions that will help you grow in the journey.
In my case, I currently work in a field that is not my area, at first I was discouraged because the idea is to exercise what you fight so hard with perseverance and sacrifice, but I learned that everything you do with effort and dedication will be rewarded, in my work I have given the best every day with firm aptitude of commitment, responsibility, honesty, respect, dedication among others, which has been valued.
In the family / friendships should be in private because there may be jealousy among members of loved ones and already with the actions, such as being aware of you, either your birthday, giving you words of encouragement to overcome any adversity is enough, these acts are earned in life by the attitudes that one has sown.
Why sown?
Dedication, love, respect are values that are not bought, they are earned as if it were a grain of rice every day.
If you do not give love do not expect a garden of roses.
The one who loves you will be there for you in good times and bad, if not just for use at the time the person needed.
With all my family and friends I have been very sincere in all aspects and thanks to my personality they value and appreciate me, no matter the distance we are always united and the photos remind us that no matter how far we are, the family and friendship will continue, it is true that the path there are changes of feelings, because life is changing daily, but when it is sincere is permanent and their actions of a message in the morning, or once a week, a month .... In an endless number. The friendship lasts and the actions are reciprocal.
Like any young woman in a family, I always seek to give all the affection and comfort to the members of the household. Whether it is in economically or morally relevant areas and even more when you are the eldest daughter, the one who by myths, you are the one who sets the example, the one who bears all the moral responsibility before the younger siblings.
The goal of every older sibling is to fulfill all the expectations set at home, such as graduating, having a job and a stable partner to later open their way and make their own family. So that their siblings are motivated to lead a similar or better life than their older sibling, since each member chooses his own destiny as the years go by.
The acquired personality is very important in the face of adversity. And sometimes you have to be rigid to give value to your fellow men in the face of circumstances.
I have always liked to give the best of myself. In every situation, a taste, an outing, buy a new garment, give love to the home with the smallest details, because everything is not money, everything adds up. Thanks to my mother and my beloved uncle, I am the woman who is currently writing this text, because they always encouraged me to set goals.
Extraordinary beings that through their experiences encourage others for a good future.
It is important to emphasize that there are times that no matter how many beautiful things you give for your loved ones, there are people who do not value your efforts and you will be criticized and sometimes humiliated because every head is a world. There is a very real saying, do good and do not look at whom, there is a God who sees daily what we do and is the only one who has the final judgment of our history.
And as for the partner should have both options why such an answer?
Because the recognition in private, your partner supports you unconditionally in the bad and good times and encourages you to grow and is notorious to express it to the public, as in the family of both parties and friends, because once you have children, future infants will grow in a harmonious environment, which later want to take the same path, although there are times that this beautiful story can be damaged by external acts of others by sowing what we know the intrigue.
I am not the kind of person who likes to be saying I did such and such a thing for such and such an individual, because such a reaction should stay between two people, be it family, friend....
The beautiful things in life is to let others live even if we do not agree, everyone has their own criteria on how to express their gratitude, whether it is with a call, a message, a visit from time to time, a sharing when it is a birthday, a wedding or a Christmas party.
Hive family, let's live today as if it were the last day. Life brings us many surprises and it is going to depend on our seeds of love, dedication, affection, respect.
PLEASURE:
IN LIFE WE ALL NEED EVERYONE AND BY DOING WELL WITH ANYONE, WE WILL HAVE RECOGNITION.
The photos are my property and the use of the translator DeepL, since my language is Spanish.
