This more than being selfless
You are brave and have sacrificed yourself for your family...

The part of leaving your job that pays you for marriage is not easy at all. I know if a couple that divorced because the woman refused to quit her job and live with her husband in same state.

So believe when I say doing what you did takes a lot of courage which you have shown.. I'm proud of you for putting your children before you, it's never easy I know but your efforts will never go to waste..