Back to the topic of the weekend. I would be a bit cunning with this one😀. Yes, I will not be giving a straightforward answer to the question. I don’t really know how it is in other countries, but growing up a Nigerian [in Nigeria], it is extremely impossible for a woman to ask you out. I have my reasons for emphasizing the impossibility; if you want to know more about that, go ahead and ask a Nigerian friend of yours.
Growing up in a background like that of Nigeria, it is taken for granted that women don’t ask men out. In fact, it is a popular knowledge for most Nigerians. Nevertheless, my love story made me realize that there are Nigerians who do not believe in that faulty orientation. Most of you at this point want to hear my love story😀. Is nothing different from many other love stories you must have heard in the past, the only thing is that the beginning wasn’t like my former beginnings but yet it turned out the best of all my relationships.
My current Nigerian girlfriend ask me out. Yes, she asked me out. She is a Nigerian but yet she asked me out. It was awkward for me. Even when I turned her down she kept on pressuring, and that became even more awkward. At some point I had no option than to give her a chance even when I was not ready for a relationship, and that became the most reasonable decision I have ever made in my life [even if I was partially force into the decision🙄]. To cut the long story short, I am in a relationship that was erected by My Woman and that is going to definitely be a life lasting relationship. Just like I told in her comment session, make sure you don’t let a man go once you find the qualities you need in a man in him; you might end up loosing your future husband😎. That is specifically for the women in the house. I think we all, whether men or women should summon the courage to ask who ever we feel is the right person for us out, gender shouldn’t deprive us of anything at all including our love life. I rest my case.
I believe most of you would love to know more about me, here is my introductory post. You can know as much as you want to know by reading that. I love you all✌️.