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To have a welcoming home is, I believe, every man's ideal. To arrive at a house that is tidy, with food ready, where the children and wife welcome him and are happy to see him. Obviously, times have changed from how they were in the past, where women were only in charge of the home and children. Today, in most of our homes, both partners work, so I think it is totally unfair to expect the woman to carry all the household responsibilities, as it is a lot of work for one person.
For that reason, I try to divide the household chores in a mutual agreement with my partner, although many times he gets annoyed. What I ask him most is to wash the dishes, since I always cook and do the laundry, and I ask him to tidy up the store in the closet and to keep the yard and garden tidy and clean, because I always tidy up the house. It's all about balance. What I do is psychological: I make him his favorite food or a treat that he likes, and he associates that if he does something, I will reward him with something from time to time. It's not an easy task and it takes a lot of patience to change that obsolete thinking that so many men have, that if they do something at home, they are helping us.
On one occasion, my partner was talking to a friend on the phone and said: I'll be right over because I'm helping Fany with the housework. I confronted him and told him that this was not so, because many men are taking for granted that housework only corresponds to women and not to them. I told him: Sorry, it's not like that. It is your responsibility because I also work, therefore, you cannot help me in something that is also your responsibility. We have to educate our children, especially boys, so that they understand that both boys and girls have the same duties at home and everything should be shared. This way, in the future, they will be more responsible men in all aspects.
Most men think they help by doing something in the home, but others understand that it is their responsibility, because a relationship is a team and they tend to have more sex than average.
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