I think we all in one way or another at some point in our lives have played the role of victims, I have done it many times in a relationship, in a job, in an illness, in the loss of a loved one, in everyday life we blame others to evade our responsibility and alleviate our feelings of guilt.it is a very human condition. I remember once my little brother fell off his bicycle, my grandmother reacted by telling him "bad bicycle, don't throw the child" and hit the bicycle.my grandmother did not do it in a bad way, but she indirectly miseducated him, shielding his responsibility for his bad driving, and blaming the bicycle, teaching him that if we live certain situations or problems it is not because of our bad decisions, but because of something or someone outside of us.
That is why many adults when they have car accidents blame each other nobody wants to take responsibility the same happens with people who have many partners it is always the other's fault that the relationship failed also repeated with those who can not keep a steady job for strange circumstances is always the fault of the boss or a co-worker who always lose their job these behaviors occur in various areas of our lives we were well recorded the role of victimizing us for everything that's why some people become eternal victims
many dependent people love to relate to very narcissistic partners who will be stressing us out and screwing up our existence, but that suits me to stay in our victim role. the truth as a victim wears a false mask of kindness just to manipulate. that is the only purpose. no one taught me that. i was that kind of person for a long time.
they didn't make us believe that to be a good person we have to be the victim that bad things always happen to us.but victims are irresponsible people.they keep looking at the actions and behavior of others to justify our mediocrity.that's why victims spend their time looking for executioners to justify their role as victims
The victim complains a lot and has thousands of excuses, but does nothing to get out of the role of victim, it is a tool of deception to hide our lack of self-determination, our lack of commitment, our fears, our disloyalty, crying and blaming others When we stop looking for culprits, learn to be responsible and let go of our fear, our ego and assume our duties, we learn to be happy because only we are responsible for how we feel and how we live..
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