Since I matured (I'm now 18 years old), I realized that I have a lot of flaws that I need to address. I don't consider it a big issue, but I admit it is one of my biggest insecurities. I have a lot of visible imperfections, precisely my fat, unclear face, not proportioned color skin, and dark underarms and thighs. Therefore, if I were given a chance to be good-looking but never had sex again or ugly and have plenty of sex, I would pick the first one.
I believe that no one is born ugly, but by society's standards, I am that guy who is unattractive and unlikeable. This insecurity made me less confident, and I think my intangible aspects (like my diligence and intelligence) are the only reasons I still have confidence. In our class, I am that student who avoids making conversations because of my lack of confidence. Good thing that I'm diligent enough, so some of my classmates this semester were interested in interacting with me.
Another photo of me where my skin color is not proportional
Aside from my impatient and not-that-family-oriented attributes, I never get interested in entering romantic relationships because of my physical features. How would I express to someone that I like them if I already feel I don't have any chance in the first place? I'm not interested in commitment right now, but that's only a thought. I see many Facebook posts about break-ups whenever I visit my social media account, which is one reason I started to view relationships as a current liability. I only view a couple's relationship as a non-current asset if it lasted without infidelity. Some relationships work on the first attempt, like my parents, but most fail until they find their destiny.
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Let's use Shakira as a great example of a woman with everything, but her husband still managed to cheat on her. She is already 46 years old (the same age as my parents), and you can see from the photo above that her face didn't change over time. Maybe she gets mature and veteran, but she maintains the feature she had when she was younger. Before becoming a notable Latina icon, she began as a neophyte with that talent first. Let's be honest, she would not keep her prominence today if she maintained her looks. She knows how to dance, sing and act (or all-arounder, in other words).
One of her famous hits in '00s
One of her famous hits in 10's
However, like some celebrities, those men who entered her life didn't work in the long term. In 2000, Shakira started dating Antonio de la Rúa, but they separated ten years after. I don't know much about the story behind it since I was not yet born when it happened, lol.
And in 2010, she started to love again (I think it's why the song Me Enamore formed) a soccer player named Gerard Piqué. Her fans thought they would live happily ever after, but they broke up recently after more than ten years of living together. Gerard Piqué had two children and an influential wife, but he still managed to live with someone else. As usual, it is the reason why this song below became a hit across the globe.
Therefore, what's the sense of being involved in an intimate relationship even if you have a good look if someone would still be willing to replace you? As her recent song denotes, "You traded in a Ferrari for a Twingo, You traded in a Rolex for a Casio," which means she is already expensive to get, but he still chose a girl anyone could afford. Her dark experience with her ex generates her money, but we know she can't be a phenomenon if she doesn't have that appearance.
By using Shakira as a reference in the question, I will choose to be good-looking but never have sex again since I believe having a good look would be one of my most significant assets. Sex won't let me earn money, but having a good appearance can do the work. They said that the beauty of a person would fade throughout the years, but I guess it only makes sense if you don't have money. Let's use Gong Yoo in the men category for this example. Some of his features change, but he's still hot and handsome as hell.
Of course, being handsome doesn't make sense if you lack talent, skill, and a pleasing attitude. Please don't think you don't have talent if you think like it since I believe we have different forms of intelligence. If I already have the looks, I believe it will probably not hinder me from doing things I want to plan.
For instance, if I have a look, I have the confidence to show my face on my social media accounts like Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. This can be an excellent way for me to pursue the things I can do with my skills and create a possibility to double my income as a social influencer and be knowledgeable in finance. I know we can generate income by making something naughty with others, like working in a strip club or doing porn, but no one would stay longer to watch your sexual intercourse if you are not handsome.
But since I don't yet have a pleasing physical appearance, I will focus first on earning money, getting good academically, honing my skills, and prioritizing my health first. By the way, I didn't intend to say that you can only get a good opportunity if you are good-looking. Yes, it adds points to your advantage, but it is not necessary since it still matters in our skills. I don't plan to undergo plastic surgery since I'm already fine with my physical features. However, I plan to do laser surgery for my stretch marks, fix my dental features, and acquire equipment for my workouts which I can only do if I have money.
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