Hello everyone , it's me once again after a long time. Today i am here to participate Weekend-Engagement contest . At first thanks to
for organizing such kind of contest and giving the opportunity to share our thoughts. My selected topic is :
Weekend quality
You're on the search for a new friend this weekend...What qualities do you look for in them and why?
Friend is one of the most valuable ones that exist in this world and plays a very important role in everyone's life. It's because we trust friends and believe them and know that all kinds of secrets will remain secret to them. So in the case of choosing a friend, we also should be careful although I think friendship doesn't make by decision but we can't be careless also at the same time. It's because if we choose the wrong person as a friend it may create the worst situation for us.
To be honest in the case of making friends we don't consider anything because it's not a matter of choosing or making friends manually. It's an automatic process and it's connected to our emotions. Generally, we hardly notice that we made friends. In most cases, we became friendly with those people who have similarities with us specially in case of thoughts.
So in my case, if I going to make a friend this weekend with several qualities I will try to find that person. I am discussing those qualities and the reason here.
Trustworthy
To become a good friend trust is the most important one and trust is that one which can make a good friend. To be a good friend we both need to trust each other. If there exists trust friendship will create automatically and if there doesn't exist trust there can't be any friends. So it's the first quality I want from my friend.
Good Listener
Although I am not a talkative person, but I want this quality in my friend and I believe that a good listener can understand the situation better than other people. In my case, I also think I am a good listener and I want this ability within my friend also which will be helpful for both of us.
Think simple and stay positive
It's true that ups and down both are part of life. We all have to struggle for various reasons in different kinds of situations. But in my point of view, I think life is like a straight line if we think like it and stay positive. In fact, it makes many things easier for us. And positive mindset is very helpful to boost us and move forward in life. For those reasons, I want this quality in my friend.
Kindness and helpful
Kindness is a great virtue. To be a good human this quality should be exist in every human and expecting this quality within my friend is quite normal also. Besides having the mentality to help others should be exist in my friend's character. This kind of quality really impress me very much.
Mentality of making tour
I am such kind of person who love to explore & visit new new places. It really give me great joy and it really help me to interact with nature very much. And definitely I won't make tour alone . So having this kind of mentality is not mandatory but necessary for me because it will help both of us to understand better each other and it will give us opportunity to enjoy good moments. Besides I wanna share my joy with my friend and that is the another reason I want this quality in my friend.
Why so serious?
I have seen many people who always remain serious. They think always remain serious makes them successful in life where I have a different opinion. I think there losing their precious and beautiful moments remaining serious all the time. We just need to be serious only for a little time I think any other time we can spend our life with joy and making fun. To be honest I don't like those people who always remain serious. It's because they choose to remain always serious and choose not to enjoy their life whatever the situation is. It's my opinion but you may have a different opinion also in that case and you are welcome to share your thoughts also here. So I don't want to friend who always remains serious.
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