hello everyone.. how are you today are you guys fine,
May we all always be healthy and happy to live this life.
On this occasion I would like to thank 
this week's engagement topic
I choose to answer option No. 2
Tell us about someone, other than your parents, who has supported and influenced you and made a positive difference to your life. What did they do, how did they do it and how have you benefitted - What lessons do you remember the best.
After I read the topic of engagement this week was quite memorable in my life, and I wanted to write a little story or the story of the second person who greatly influenced my life besides my own mother.
I got married in 2010, my age was 26, which is relatively young, and my wife's age is 24, 2 years apart. Actually, I don't want to rush into marriage, but my family demands that I have to comply.
I was paired with a woman I never knew and didn't love, how could this happen I couldn't do much and I finally got married.
But at that time my attitude was too indifferent and didn't care a bit about my wife, my priority was always work.
But on the other hand my wife is very patient with my behavior that is too indifferent.
Months turned into years and it was still happening, so one day we had a really big argument, and this is where I finally felt very guilty towards my wife.
Finally I apologized to my wife and promised not to repeat all the mistakes I made.
After being married for 2 years, I was finally blessed with a very beautiful daughter who I named Raisya humaira and is now 7 years old.
2 years later I was given a daughter who was quite cute and I named her Shela Rizkia.
Their cute and funny attitude makes me very happy.
My days are full of colors..
My wife is a very influential person in my personal life, she is very patient in carrying out domestic life with me.
She is the second person I love besides my mother.
But 2 years ago my second daughter had an incident, where she had to be hospitalized, because she had ulcers under her eyes and the doctor said she needed surgery.
At that time all my family was very sad, especially my wife was suffering so much why this could happen, maybe this was a test that God gave me and my family.
He was in the hospital for almost 3 months, making my mind tired, but my wife never gave up on caring for the child we love the most.
After going through a critical period, we were finally allowed to go home, look at the sweet smile that emanated from the two faces of my son who were so cute, even though the bandage was still attached to his face.
The days we went through felt very tired but we had to be strong for the children we love so much..
This is the topic of my engagement this week, hope you guys like it.