Legit Or Not - Sex Before Marriage
Don't just handle the fruit, you must get to taste it first, a saying I have heard over the years which does make good reasoning. In all honesty I cannot believe woman or men enter into a marriage till death do us part without testing the water first.
Love comes in many guises, a man with great wealth needs to throw caution to the air he, ensuring he is not being tricked into marriage for money alone. A beautiful woman there is another African proverb covering this one, 'One who plants grapes by the roadside, and one who marries a pretty woman, share the same problem.'
Society through most religions will dictate no sex before marriage, both must become one from a pure state, now how is that possible two virgins clambering around trying to make sense of life? Very few accomplish, it is literally an opening to divorce courts a few years down the line, children hurt, or an unhappy partner for life, your choice!
Some high school sweethearts make it naturally into marriage, can they honestly say looking back there was no foreplay? Growing up is all about our sexual desires, being honest with oneself goes extra miles when considering it's a lifetime commitment.
Sex before marriage after dating for a good period of time but before marriage is something that is legit, should be done, how would you know this most important part of life is not going to backfire on you within a week after celebrating within company of all. Another African proverb to ponder, "A happy man marries the girl he loves, but a happier man loves the girl he marries", now take note the man is always given preferential treatment in all these proverbs or directly from some 'good books" which leads me into the next part of a dual answer to questions posed this week....
Proverbs 2:16-22 emphasized that sex under any guise apart from marriage only leads to unhappiness, curses and poverty.. I would imagine this applies to both male and female gender. Although woman get a bad wrap, men need woman to perform the act in most circumstances.
The ladies - Most useful item
Vocal intellect is most powerful, how one identifies pitch of tone, how it is perceived. When your mother yelled at you scorning what you did wrong, you know by the tone of her voice!
A woman's voice can be sexy, sultry, serious, cool and cruel when unleashed, whichever way presents itself in any situation. Use that intelligently, pitch of tone can take you further in business, in the bedroom, within family, it can become your best/worst enemy, use it wisely!
Knowledge always goes a long way, approaching a problem logically using the right tone of voice overcome problems sensibly through debate within a marriage or business, a most useful item one carries around with oneself.
Let me know in the comments below what is your intuition on these matters of life. More topics offered by @galenkp for #WeekendExperiences
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Thought for Today: "One who marries for sex alone would have bad days but good nights." - African Proverb