I never really understood how quickly loneliness can creep in… until recently.
It all started on Facebook when I met a lady named Anna. We connected easily, and before long, I found myself smiling at my phone more often than usual. I asked for her contact, she gave it to me, and we moved our conversation to WhatsApp. When she sent me her picture, I couldn’t help but respond, “Wow, nice one.” There was something about her that caught my attention instantly.
Then came Friday.
I stepped out to the bank to fix an issue with my ATM card, hoping to sort things out quickly. But when I got there, the crowd was overwhelming, so I had to leave without solving anything. While hanging around the area, I tried taking some pictures, but a security officer quickly stopped me. I quietly walked away.
At that moment, I tried reaching Anna but her phone was off. No calls, no messages, no online status.
That was when it hit me.
I felt alone.
Not just because she wasn’t available, but everything around me seemed off. I was stranded, broke, and with Easter approaching, I had no money or clear plan. It felt like everything was just piling up at once.
But I knew I couldn’t stay in that state.
Saturday came, and instead of sitting in my thoughts, I decided to go for choir rehearsal earlier than usual. Music has always been a part of me, so I sat at the piano, started playing, singing, and slowly… I felt like myself again.
Sometimes, all you need is that one thing that reconnects you to who you are.
After rehearsal, I checked my phone—and there it was.
A message from Anna.
She apologized, explaining that there had been a power outage and her phone went off. Honestly, I smiled. We continued chatting, and then she said something that completely changed my mood, she planned to visit me on Sunday for Easter.
And just like that, everything felt lighter.
That experience taught me something important: loneliness will come, but it doesn’t have to stay. Sometimes, all it takes is finding your way back to yourself through purpose, passion, or even the right people.