Hello everyone, happy weekend to you all and I wish you a very happy weekend all over there, I hope you are all enjoying your weekend with your loved ones and having a great weekend. Thanks to for the great initiative of the #weekend-engagement. This is my participation to the #weekend-engagement week #161, "Friendship" it says.
Some people find it easy to make friends because they are always surrounded with people when they are still in college or University but the truth is when we became a full adult, finding a true friend can be tricky because it's is not all the college friendship that last forever.
As an adult we will want to focus on our life and then we will start meeting lesser people and at times, trying to talk to people might get hard when they started avoiding have an eye contact with us as if it's going to turn them into something else.
Actually, friendship can have a great impact in our life and we'll being including our health, having a friend can be easy but to maintain a friendship take a lot of effort. All of my friends I make back then are now in a far distance and not easy to reach except true audio commication or through social media.
Some months ago when I look far and near, I see that I really doesn't have a friend I can call if I need someone to talk to, someone who can come around to keep me company if needed any and I asked that is how bad I am, not even a friend 🙄🙄.
Social media have taken everything away from us that we doesn't find the need for an offline friend. I met a lady not quite long and I see that we can make a good friend if I make effort and we can get on well. I doesn't have an offline friend for quite a long time for the fear of being reject.
When I first met this lady, she have new twins baby and we started our friendship from her kids, asking her how they are doing and at times play with the kids.She will come to my place most of the time and I will check up on her if I did not see her. I don't know how it started, we just became close all of a sudden.
We became open to each other, she will tell me what is wrong with her and I will give her advice on it if it is something that is not too personal and same goes to her. It really take time to form a long lasting friendship with someone but with patient I think it is possible, we are not best buddy yet but that can happen soon.
She is the only offline friend I have for now and she take me for who I am but I don't know what the future holds.
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