Today we are gathered here to say goodbye to a woman who was in life a great woman, Oh please, let's stop the typical speech full of hypocrisy and let's go straight to what we want to express.
I took the time to write what you will read at my funeral, because I am a natural, straightforward, uncomplicated person and I never did anything I was not comfortable with.
So let's start at the beginning
She was an introverted woman as a young woman, perhaps insecure, but she never confessed it to anyone. She never hurt anyone intentionally, revenge was not part of her journey and forgiveness was always there.
Spoiled from time to time and capricious too. Used to being spoiled by her loved ones, when she did not get what she wanted, a tantrum or disconsolate crying flowed naturally. Maturity made her aware that matters would not always end as she wished or at her convenience.
A touch of naivety, a lot of romanticism and dreamy, she longed for her love life with a "happily ever after" and she got it. ❤️
Her greatest pride is named Valeria, her only daughter to whom she instilled values and principles that she received from home, as well as the motivation to achieve her professional and personal dreams. Likewise, she enjoyed and pampered her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Conformist? I don't think so. She continually went for more. Bitter? Yes, at one time, she was the most bitter woman in the entire American continent.
Dramatic like the protagonist of a soap opera.
Affectionate, courageous, kind, splendid, optimistic, curious. Equally unfriendly and ill-mannered when someone did not inspire a good feeling in her. With a serious face, but with a cheerful heart.
She loved family outings, shopping, good restaurants, travel. Having an extensive budget to please and indulge. Perhaps some would say that she was in her youth a compulsive shopper.
At an adult age she immersed herself in the spiritual path, without fanaticism, because she never liked the exaltation exaggerated by any slogan, the contents of personal growth, self-help, wellness, were a priority in her home.
She wanted to spread knowledge to others so that they could benefit from what it meant to live in harmony with everything and for everyone. She took care of her words and thoughts, taking care of her diet came later ha, ha, ha, ha, but what can you do, she loved sweets and carbohydrates.
He achieved wellness, he enjoyed perfect health.
He achieved financial success and was an inspiration to others.
His name became known for the charitable works in favor of the importance of mental health, in agreement with his daughter, who is a Psychologist by profession, specialist in Clinical Psychology, they founded a free care center.
And finally I wish my daughter had listened to my opinion and made the easiest decision for her, she always asked me if at the time of my death I would prefer cremation or traditional burial and my answer did not satisfy her.
It is simple, my words were... "choose what you prefer, whatever is less cumbersome, after all it is a lifeless body, I will not feel any pain, I have no preference for any option, I am practical, the most feasible".
"You will be the person who will take responsibility for being my only daughter, and even if I am not alive, I will always choose your well-being. Do with my body as you please."
Well, gentlemen, this is all for today, thanks to those who lived and accompanied my relatives in my farewell.
I leave happy, I achieved in life what I set out to do and the universe surprised me with much more.
This concludes my entry for @Galenkp's 130th commitment. If you want to participate I leave you the link so you can choose your favorite option.
I say goodbye wishing you good vibes 💞
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