Ok, good Sunday to all !!! Thank you for another great topic shower hovering around number 2 ! Happy week 222 to all ! My chosen topic is the first one, and the two moments of my life to delete, uf, it will not be easy, since I have tried not to have them very present, haha and accept that this is part of an Erika of the past, which does not constitute me today, anyway ... if you want to participate in this initiative, this is the link this week, still try to be attentive every Friday for the update of week and topics.
If you could choose two moments of your life to completely erase what would they be and why? Use your own photos.
First, tell you a little bit that it is about two very specific moments, where life wanted to teach me a lesson, right or wrong, and maybe I also acted wrong, but I was not quite ready, and I decided to accept the teaching, although if I could, I would certainly go back in time to change those moments haha, and the reason is simple, on the one hand, I would delete a person whose attitudes were of those detestable in any human, no matter if it is close, far away, or if you have learned the lesson later.
I would erase exactly the moment where I met the first person who marked me in an “ugly” way in the world. That someone uses you, cheats on you, abuses your trust and betrays certain codes, should not happen, although it speaks more about the other than about me, but when after forgiving, trying, and being a bunny of good intentions, you discover that you have been cheated on, and put all this in danger, even if you forgive, you learn that something was broken in you forever.There's not much way to explain it or make up for these attitudes.
I don't think these things are a mistake, and maybe I shouldn't have forgiven, or always appealed to understanding. Sometimes reason passes to the heart and it is precisely when everything becomes rational that I would erase the moment. If you don't have a heart, then why keep trying?
And I would like to erase it, because I would recover that naive trust in the world, although I understand that life is not for the naive, certain things in love I liked more naive, more careless. I haven't become a distrustful partner either, but I certainly don't look at everyone with the same goodwill. At one time I thought that only very damaged people were unfaithful, abused others, or hurt them. I thought there must be little connection in that couple, or little communication. Well no, sometimes that decision is unilateral, and the other in their bubble, does as they please, without thinking about you, and certainly being in a couple so they don't think about you, I wouldn't want to repeat it. I would completely erase this.
And the second moment that I would erase, speaking of roads and things that have heart, is when I decided to return to Ecuador for legal and labor issues.
If at that moment I had had enough confidence in myself, I would have lived the adventure I wanted to do years ago.
And it was precisely because of a lack of confidence, and supported by something that had a lot of rationality and little heart, that I returned to Buenos Aires.I'm not complaining either, I did many beautiful things from then on, and lived other kinds of experiences. But if I had only taken the risk, surely today I would not regret it. If I had the chance, I would do it without hesitation, and I confess that I am planning it a little, traveling through Latin America has always been a dream for me, and I have people who encourage me and in their experience always tell me to dare, I do not know what I'm waiting for, the truth. haha.
Well friends, this has been all for this Sunday, I hope you are all great and I say goodbye with a big hug! Surely if I had another life, I would try to use this experience as a learning experience and not just keep the lesson, see you soon!
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