Doing it or not - Weekend engagement #153

In my personal opinion I would not. First of all because I was raised with values. And the value of respect is very important to keep in mind. Second "don't do what you don't like to be done to you". That's a very true statement. I have never really gone through a similar situation so intense. And if she is my best friend I would have the courage to tell her, what her boyfriend proposes to me. My best friend's partner may look like Brad Pitt may be the most attractive man in any woman's eyes. But I don't fall for those kinds of games. I respect myself as a woman and I respect my best friend.

This situation happened to me once: I once went to a wedding with my best friend and her partner. My best friend's husband was a womanizer and wanted to fall in love with every woman that came his way. When my friend went to the bathroom and I stayed at the table with him, he started to make me fall in love with him, I didn't let him continue in his game, I talked to him and told him everything I could think of, that he was disrespectful, a bad man, because he did that to his wife, my best friend, who was almost my sister. Of course, he didn't go so far as to propose that I spend a night with him. And I threatened him that if he continued saying things to me I would tell his wife. That was enough for him not to tell me anything more. Since my friend was like my sister, a few days later I visited her and told her. She believed me. He continued with the same bad habit of wanting to make my friend's friends fall in love with him. Until my friend left him because the situation was unbearable, he had fallen in love with a common friend and she did spend a night with him. My friend found out and left him. It was the best decision my friend ever made.