Hi friends of WEEKEND EXPERIENCES!
Have you ever asked (or would you ever ask) a guy out for a first date?
Even if our society wants to change the ideologies or thoughts that come from yesteryear about relationships, in my opinion the one who makes the relationship start, is stable and works, will always be the man, I do not say it out of my own thought, but because of the experiences that I have lived and those that I have seen in relatives and acquaintances throughout my life.
My only declaration experience towards a man 🤭, was around 15 years old, I hadn't had a boyfriend or anything like that, and I still didn't realize the beauty potential I had at that age 😂, I tell you: in front of my house mother there is a court, which in those years brought together a large number of boys playing basketball tournaments 🏀, among all those boys there was one that attracted me too much.
We always exchanged glances and we felt that I was not invisible to him, in my interest to get closer to this boy I began to attend these games (sport that until now has never attracted me, but as they say "Interest has legs... 😂) and little by little I felt that we were getting closer.
We began to treat each other, until one day when almost everyone had withdrawn from the field, we were sitting in the stands, I dared and confessed that I liked him a lot, he looked at me with a pitying face and told me that he had approached me, because he liked my sister and wanted me to help him with her😣.
I complained to him about the fact that he flirted with me and I never spoke to him again, but just imagine how I felt, it made me angry and especially ashamed and since then I never dared to tell any boy if I was attracted to him.
From that moment I understood that the initiative must be given by the man, after that shameful experience I have always hoped that it would be the man who declared himself and thus not go through such a shame again.
After the man gives the initiative to start a relationship, the woman feels more confident in showing her feelings, and I really think that it is the man who should initiate the relationship, and in the strongest step such as marriage. .
Although there are currently many daring women on this subject, I am not one of those who declare themselves to a man 😊, I would like to know the opinion of men.
The photos shared here are my property taken with my iPhone 11 phone