Hi guys of WEEKEND EXPERIENCES ❤️!
I hope you are enjoying an excellent weekend, here I leave my participation:
Making a change
If I think about one of the things that I would most like to change the upbringing that my parents gave me is the fact that I stop being so sensitive to words.
My parents tried to give my sisters and me an exemplary education and upbringing, but among all the rules they taught us, there is one in particular that I would like to change.
In my home, not a single rudeness could be pronounced, nor bad words of any kind, nor bad thoughts, and I admit it in part, this makes you an optimistic person in any situation, good or bad.
But unfortunately this upbringing makes you a very sensitive person to the words that other people can tell you and it bothers me a lot to be like that 😔
There are even times when very simple phrases affect you emotionally, and I really wish I was a little less sensitive, I have seen how brothers or couples treat each other with aggressive phrases and never bother each other.
My sisters and I have this very similar behavior, if I tell them or they tell me a phrase such as "you are stupid to do that", we get upset and there are occasions that we have lasted up to months annoyed, we do not speak to each other and we avoid even looking at each other and that behavior is horrible.
And despite what I suffer with this sensitivity, it has become like a chain. As an adult I was able to realize that my parents behave the same way and in raising my children, despite trying to avoid it without thinking, I have handled it in a similar way. I try to change that and without realizing it I teach them again in the same way.
I really wish I could change that part of my upbringing and especially that of my children, try to be less sensitive to words and I wish my sisters were too.
As I have said before, I have seen throughout my life as brothers or even couples they treat each other in a rougher way and after a while they treat each other and talk to each other as if nothing had happened, I would like to be something like that a little more enduring 😊
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