Happy day to all dear friends, today I am pleased to share with you my entry in the weekend challenge #163 of this great community #WEEKEND EXPERIENCES, the theme chosen by me is: Self care

Personally I would say that the personal care of us is the most sincere demonstration of self-love that each one could have, however when I became a mother this step into the background for a while because my priority is my daughters, however as time went by I noticed that having neglected my body, my appearance leaving aside my personal care, during the first year of life of my first daughter, this undermined my self-esteem after the weight gain and see my hair neglected, This led me to a self analysis and reflection, so I decided to be somewhat selfish and start dedicating time for my personal care, so when you are a mother personal care is somewhat selfish because it is clear that your children want to be 24 hours a day on you and that's natural they are small and require your care and protection, however you have to take time for a good shower, fix your hair, take care of your skin and even exercise, Sometimes when I exercise my youngest daughter cries, however I talk to her and tell her that mom is busy and that soon I will be with her, little by little she is adapting to see me exercise, and what I recommend is that as a woman we stop assuming 100% of the things at home and the children, trust more in our partner and delegate responsibilities and stop being super controlling and want to do everything, because we consider that the other person does not do things exactly as we believe it is right, but well this is my experience, today I delegate responsibilities to my husband in terms of children and home, I dedicate time for me, to take care of myself so today my self-esteem is fine and I am happy to lead a more balanced life.

Thank you all for making it this far for your time, attention and support and I hope you are having a great weekend.