Happy day to all dear friends, today I am pleased to share with you my entry in the weekend challenge #164 of this great community #WEEKEND EXPERIENCES, the theme chosen by me is: Cheat and confrontation

Controversial topic that brings us this weekend Hive account@galenkp , being honest no matter if you have a girlfriend or you are married there will always be people who consider you attractive and even want to have something with you regardless of the type of relationship you have at that time, that on the one hand and on the other side of the scale is your loyalty to your partner, then starting from the central theme of course I would confront my partner to know of his infidelity, forgive an infidelity personally I would forgive it, as long as he forgives me personally an infidelity that is taken ended after the confrontation. .. You will say she went crazy and did not warn me 😂 and the truth is that I only have eyes for my husband, however in LATAM we live in a culture where women are usually the ones who forgive men's infidelities, but what happens when the woman is the one who fails? She is judged and labeled as a bad woman, for the man and his ego to forgive an infidelity is almost impossible or an inconceivable idea and even more if the man is used to be the one who fails in the relationship.... so if my partner would like to continue in a relationship with me, that would be the condition, for him to feel what I felt, let's say it would be to put him in the same position as I was, one of my life mantras is DON'T DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE TO BE DONE TO YOU, the reason for ALL this is simple, I like that in the relationship there is reciprocity, equality and exclusivity and if the person I am with is willing to receive all this from me, he/she should also give it to me, a relationship is of 2 people working towards it, and a golden rule after all this odyssey would be not to touch again the subject of both infidelity because there is nothing more annoying than to live remembering the past and the failures, and worse still taking them out every time to reduce, these are things that do not allow to advance the relations and to forgive implies to leave that behind and to continue without forgetting the lesson of that mistake, and if all of the above simply cannot be given because my partner's ego does not allow it, the best thing to do is to end the relationship because when someone crosses certain limits he/she will always do it again, marriage is not a cage, if you are not comfortable in a relationship get out of it in the best way. If you are not comfortable in a relationship get out of it in the best way, and well don't make the other person waste time in a relationship that does not work, life is simple, the complicated ones are us, the truth is a very controversial topic and every decision will depend on many circumstantial factors.

Thank you all for making it this far for your time, attention and support and I hope you are having a great weekend.