Fear of rejection and the potential for humiliation is an overwhelming thought for me if I see any lady that I love and want to communicate my intention to her. However, being in the public, I would want to be tactful about it to get the desired goal. I hate defeats with passion.
I will be making eye contact with the girl. I believe it's a great way to let someone know that I am interested in her as it passes messages quickly. I will make sure not to stare for a long period. She may not notice me the first time around, but I won't get discouraged. I will make sure I am in her view, and try to catch her when she’s looking in my direction.
After making eye contact with me if her face remains rigid, confused, disgusted, or expressionless, I won't approach her.
If she makes eye contact with me more than 2 or 3 times in a row, there’s a good chance she’s interested in me.
I will wave to her from where I am seated with a smiling face.
I know those who are in love tend to stare into each other's eyes for long periods.
If she smiles back. All smiles are not created equal. But if she smiles genuinely using the muscles in her eyes and her mouth. People smile more often when they see someone they find attractive.
Smiling will also make her easily approachable for me and make me comfortable with my approach with confidence and a positive mindset.
Immediately, I will walk up to her in a non-threatening manner and introduce myself. I will approach her from the front and not behind and try not to have physical contact, this might feel disgusting to her and it could ruin my chances for the night. I will not walk directly toward her like I have a mission. Instead, I will walk in her direction, but make my approach natural and not forced.
I will start the conversation in this manner;
“Hi,” “Hey,” “Are you having fun?,” or “I saw you at the other end of the bar.”
I won't give an elaborate pick-up line as she might find it corny.
I will say something funny, like "I come here for the world's greatest vibes. What brings you here?"
I will try to crack a joke as creatively as I could be at the moment
"I love your dress! I was going to wear that same dress tonight too, but that would've been awkward."
I will ask her if she’ll let me buy her her favorite drink. There is a high possibility of accepting my favorite drink offer.
I will sit next to her and try to find common interests. I will try to find common interests. I will pull from our surroundings like the city and town we are in, the bar we are patronizing, or trending topics in the city.
I will try to make her understand that meeting her was deliberate and that I have always wanted to meet someone like her.
If she doesn't feel interested in my romantic statement, I will switch instantly to have her phone number for the night.
If she's interested in what I am saying, I will tell her my intentions toward her and probably fix it the next time of meeting her