𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐞𝐧𝐝, @𝐆𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐤𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭-𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐝. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐮𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 — 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞.
Here is the link if you are looking for something to write on for this weekend.
𝓦𝓱𝓸 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓳𝓮𝓪𝓵𝓸𝓾𝓼 𝓸𝓯 (𝓲𝓯 𝓪𝓷𝔂𝓸𝓷𝓮)? 𝓦𝓱𝔂, 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓱𝓸𝔀 𝓭𝓸 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓯𝓮𝓮𝓵 𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓼 𝓳𝓮𝓪𝓵𝓸𝓾𝓼𝔂 𝓪𝓯𝓯𝓮𝓬𝓽𝓼 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓵𝓲𝓯𝓮?
Someone said that envy comes first before it turns to jealousy. At least you can envy someone else's lifestyle or doings, but when it becomes something you are trying to threaten them with or doing anything evil to them, it turns to jealousy.
Even though it is common and normal to be jealous of someone, we need to be careful so we don't get carried away to start looking for ways to bring them down.
There is someone I get jealous of many times as the person is so close to me. This act makes me want to do better and upgrade myself too, but I would blame my environment and upbringing too.
Who will ever believe this lady here is my immediate younger sister? Her lifestyle is so upgraded that I still look at myself and want to step up more like her. My sister here lived a good life. I wouldn't want to oppose the idea that I also lived a good life but hers was different because of the kind of environment she lived in that was richer and better than mine.
While she was in Secondary School, she was opportune to live with a rich and educated Aunt of ours (living in the US now) who had given her the best life she ever love. For me, I lived with my parent, and the kind of environment we stayed in contributed negatively to my lifestyle right now, I am still not up to the life she had lived and have grown a lot of personalities around her that makes her living more tush than mine.
I got to understand that there is a big gap with living with educated and uneducated people. Also, your environment and the people around you say a lot about you. My sister has a wonderful connection that has given her so many opportunities while I am still struggling to even hone my lifestyle and live a fashionista life just like my sister.
My sister is an extrovert, I mean an extreme one while I am an introvert and it was all caused by my parents when they didn't allow me to explore areas I could have just because of their mentality in them as uneducated people.
My life as an extreme introvert was due to how I was brought up and till today, it is so affecting my lifestyle. I am trying to change that so I could also be connected to great people just like my sister who has been given such an opportunity by my Aunt right from the onset.
Thanks for your time
Images are sent by my sister.
