Honestly, you’re speaking facts. Everything really shows itself when the man is no longer around, and it’s sad because a simple will would save so much drama. Polygamy looks fine from the outside, but living inside it is another story entirely. The emotional stress alone is enough.

I completely understand your point, protecting your peace and dignity will always be the best decision. Not everyone is built for that kind of pressure, and there’s nothing wrong with choosing a more stable, healthier path.
Thank you so much for your engagement.