Love at firstsight could this be real or infatuation?? Anyways_
I've never been a lover girl, and I've never believed in love or love at first sight. I believed loving a person takes a lot of work and effort which I wasn't ready for . I sometimes scold my friends for having a crush on a guy they just met. I mean I felt it's so unrealistic and used to think that it was silly until I was a VICTIM OF LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.
HOW IT STARTED
I was in my first year of high school, and he had already graduated from the same school and had started working at a cyber cafe as an IT technician who knows he's onion. I could tell by looking at him that he was a little older than I was, which is cool.
He was always been busy and reserved and was known to be so strict and not smiling, regardless I feel there's more to the not so friendly face.
OUR FIRST ENCOUNTER
It was time for my matriculation, and I was all dressed up and feeling great, the joy that came with this, anyone can tell from my appearance that I was all filled with joy for the ceremony. On my way out to the venue of the ceremony I saw him, and he both praised and criticized the dress I was wearing. I couldn't help but pick at him. I didn't know why I was so mad, but I know he spoilt the initial confidence I left my room with. Regardless I appreciated how honest he was.
AN OPPORTUNITY TO START ALL OVER AGAIN
. School fully resumed so everyone was back to class all hands back on desks as lectures has fully commenced.Then I had assignment upon assignment and lot of seminars to do, sincerely first year is really overwhelming. And since I didn't have a laptop at the time, the stress was double so I thought I should ask him for help, even if I had to pay him for his time. I went up to him with lot of fear I didn't know what to expect , if the conversation was going to turn out well. Upon seeing me he said, "You again?" I said, "Yes, it's me again." I told him what I wanted to do, and asked if he could help . Then he said, "If you ever need anything, you can always come to me." Wow! I didn't expect him to be that nice. Well I liked him already because I had butterflies in my stomach. Even when I didn't need anything, I became a regular customer. I'd go to the shop just to see his face, and when I'm done , I'd watch him from my window. I knew his foot steps, lol. Then exam time came, and it was time to show what you had learned. I wasn't very good at statistics, and I was getting worried. Then, a senior colleague reached out to me and asked what subject I was having troubles with. I said statistics, and he said, "Okay, the computer guy will tutor you." That day, I couldn't have been happier. The heavens were on my side to be honest. So I started a personal study with him. Over time, we became more than just teacher and student; we became close. I'll tell him about personal problems, and all he does is listen and offer help wherever and whenever he can . I liked him more and more, but I didn't tell him because I don't know if he feels the same way about me. We stayed friends until it was time for me to graduate. Then I got up the courage to tell him how I felt about him not minding what the outcome will be.
WHAT REALLY GOT MY ATTENTION?
I liked that he was so sincere, open, and smart. He was the strict looking type but lovely from a close end . He's the kind of person who'll always give his best in everything he does. I mean there's nothing not to like about him he's personality drew me to him!
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OUR LITTLE MIX-UP TURNED OUT WELL IN THE END. Although we started off on a bad note , we became friends along the line and planned to stay that way, but God has other plans. It turned out my crush was also crushing on me.Now, we are set to walk the aisle together. I'm getting married to my crush my first loveš so yeah I don't regret crushing on him!
This is my response to the #weekendExperiencePrompt 137 Thank you for droppingš