Hello dear weekend experience community, it's already becoming a habit to pass me over here on Sundays. Today I took Mark Twain's phrase and I don't lie to them my first thought was I don't want to eat a frog and I'll. But putting seriousness in the subject I feel that this talks about avoiding procrastination.
For those who do not know how to process it is basically avoiding doing a priority task or responsibility as they want to call you doing other things and this leads to doing what was priority at the last moment, or it may even happen that it is not possible to do for example when there is a time limit.
Honestly, I do not consider myself a procrastinator in most of my tasks in fact I think I am the opposite looking to fulfill before the stipulated time, but when thinking about this topic I connected a lot with an experience that happened to me around 2019-2020, and that I want to tell you (if I am a lot of telling my life).
At that time I was going through moments of academic anxiety, and everything was going relatively well, but they give us Christmas holidays and I told myself "myself we are going to enjoy this vacation, and no homework until January", and in my photo they see me fabulous but a hidden smile many things.
On that vacation period I had a bad time I didn't feel peace of mind, if I was in one place I wanted to be in another and I had a current anguish the fear of doing that task, with many catastrophic ideas of how everything could go wrong and the meaning of that to me was something terrible although in the reason the worst thing that could happen was to reprove.
And there were my daily frogs accumulating, and it wasn't one or two anymore it was like 10 frogs probably one bigger than the other. And the day came that I had to eat the frogs and they won't believe what happened I felt great relief and I stayed.
And if I had done the activity, I barely went on vacation, I would be saved by Christmas full of tension and anxiety. That is, if my frog was eaten daily or the largest, I was going to have my time without problem or exhaustion.
And it is that usually when something scares us we postpone it as a way of defence or to avoid bad time but in the end that only increases anguish, because sooner or later it is something to be done, if postponing it will eliminate it would be wonderful and an effective technique but it is not.
So dear community you have to learn how to eat that frog and that will release us and allow us to eat then other more tasty things, how they say on my land "at the wrong step hurry it".
Tell me Did they learn to eat their frog yet? I read them in comments.