I played some mahjong today with my grandaunts and ending up losing 80 cents and after that I let my mom take over
Hopefully, I don't come off as a narcissist today. I genuinely think that if I met someone new today, they would definitely like my personality. Why do I think this?
First of all, I'm a kind, genuine and honest person and I would say I have a decent EQ. Even though I tend to be direct, I feel I am able to word things in a more subtle way if that makes sense. I'm easy to get along with and I think people would vibe with me. I think the hard part though is just getting to know me as I'm not really socializing a lot. I'm not the type to initiate a conversation with someone new so maybe I would come off as unapproachable. If it's online though, I think it's a lot easier. I think the people that have gotten to know me and became friends with me from online through Hive, discord etc can vouch for my personality.
In addition to that, I am an open-minded person. A famous quote says don't judge a book by it's cover so I try not to judge anybody. I don't have any issues talking to people of different races, religion etc. I can talk about almost any topics. I would be willing to listen and hear that new person's opinion. Honestly speaking though if I did meet someone that murdered someone with bad intentions before or done some notorious stuff, I would be scared and probably run. I guess that could come off as judging but I care about living you know.
Of course, I'm not perfect. There will always be room for improvement no matter how old I get. At the stage where I am at now, I think what I can do to be more likable is to be maybe a bit less negative. Recently, I noticed that I do come off a bit pessimistic so I guess I can try to be more optimistic at times even though things don't look too good.
That's all from me for this weekend! I've been super busy but glad I could get this post out. Hope you all having a good holidays and a happy Christmas coming up in two days.