I'm turning twenty seven this year and I'm still uncertain about my future. Sometimes when I'm not busy I will stop and think about these concerns and they just don't go away. I have some personal future concerns regarding financial, career and relationships.
Financial
This is a picture of my wallet and a 1 dollar bill in my currency Malaysian Ringgit
I'm slightly worried about my financial status for the future as I don't think I'm making enough money to where I want to be for the quality of life that I want. I haven't even bought a house yet and I've seen some other people in their twenties after graduating buy a house already. On top of that, my mom and stepdad keep asking me when I'm going to buy a house and that seriously makes me stressed out sometimes.
I'm not even sure if I want to own a house so fast as that's a lot of money to commit as I'm still young and haven't really settled down in any location yet. My way of addressing this is just to do my best, hustle and try to make as much money as I can and one of the ways is through blogging so I have been doing my best to blog at least once a day.
Career
I'm still not 100% completely sure what I want to do in the future. Currently, I'm just working at my dad's business and doing part time admin work for a business networking club which I can comfortably work from home on my laptop. I don't think I will do this forever though as this is not my passion and this is just a means to make money at the moment. I also know that I don't want to work in a normal office job.
Ideally, I would love to be full time on web3 gaming, NFTS and blogging on hive but this may take some time and isn't too realistic at the moment since they crypto market is down and I'm still building my reputation by blogging more and engaging with other writers on hive. I would also love to work in the Esports scene or anything related to gaming. I could address the concern of my career by trying to explore jobs in the esports industry as well as building up my blog to the point where I can make the full time web3gaming, NFTS and blogging a reality.
Relationship
Oh boy relationship this is a big one. As I said before, I'm turning twenty seven this year but I've never been into a real relationship before. It's not that I don't want to but I never found the one that clicks well with me or it was just one sided feeling where I would be interested in them and they weren't or vice versa. I'm someone that wants a long-term relationship that goes into marriage and in our generation it's mostly just short relationships so it's a bit diffucult to meet someone that thinks the same way and also have mutual feelings for one another.
This slightly makes me stressed too because my grandparents and parents always asking me where my girlfriend is. I actually had a point where they thought I was gay and I'm definitely not and don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with being gay. I just really don't roll that way and I'm only into girls. To address this problem I guess I have to put myself out there more and try to social more as well as play some dating apps to get to know more girls.
Thank you for reading about my own concerns for my own future. I don't think I'm alone here with concerns about personal future. I hope that you guys also figure out how to solve your concerns and all the best. Happy Weekend to you all!
Credits
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