Hello everyone, hope you all are doing great. For today I'm choosing topic 2 for the weekendexperiences contest talking about how I deal with people who come in my life as it's really common to meet people with different mindsets and perspectives even on this platform all of us have different ideologies when we interact with eachother. To all this how we respond greatly matters because some people come to motivate us and some just have issues, depression and negativity on any interaction.
I want to start with how I deal with the positive people who meet me. From sometimes I am very actively participating in all the extra curricular activities which happen at my school so I come in contact with people have a great level of IQ, interacting on various topics from information technology to the importance of meditation and patience in one's life so I am collecting alot of knowledge whenever I sit with them in a group conversation as they talk on various projects and it's outcomes which helps me improve myself. Recently they helped me learn a new dish which I tried at my home and everyone appreciated me for that.
So whenever you come accross people with positivity they have a certain goal in life and have ample amount of knowledge so they brainstorm on topics and no one in their company feels bored and don't leave without learning something new. I truly inspire such people and always like to be with them to think out of the box and learn new things, experiences and much more.
Talking about them people having negativity. It's obvious that a person with negative thoughts won't be happy ever and will not wish that others be happy. In my class, I do have some students who are always jealous and covetous about others achievements they just simply take it as a topic of gossip if someone tries to acts as a of voluntee, never cheering in anyone's joy but due to this some students don't even participate because of the fear to be made fun of and it affects their confidence.
So me and my other friends have tried to solve this issue to a great extent. We have made a group with them so to collectively participate and face all the issues, the best thing is that we just don't even try to give those negative people an answer because SILENCE IS THE BEST ANSWER, they themselves won't feel any importance if we just focus on ourselves and stay completely silent.
That's how I deal with postive and negative people.
Thankyou !!
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