If someone owns my body, it is me and I have the legitimate right to take care of it, love it and protect it, as well as to satisfy its basic needs such as food, rest, and sex, the latter being a physiological need, which I am not saying, it is in Abraham Maslow's pyramid at the same level as food, hydration and the security of a shelter.

Sex allows us to reproduce and without it, there is no life naturally, so it is part of the development of being, now, having sex before marriage is legitimate or not is the question that Hive account@galenkp asks us, I think it depends on the culture and religion in which we live. In my country, it was frowned upon in past decades to have sex before marriage and some religions still frown upon it, but it is now seen as normal to have sex in a courtship.

In other countries, there are stricter measures such as those in the Middle East, so having or not having sex before marriage will be related to the part of the world in which we live.

I believe that everything has its time and having intimacy with another person is something that should be done in full maturity, when the body and mind are aligned and ready for this, for example, I developed at the young age of 9 years, and my body was already able to give another life, but in the mind, I was still a girl so it is appropriate to have sex when the body, mind and even the spirit feel they are mature to carry a pleasurable sexual relationship without trauma or complexes.

I also think that the natural desire for sex should not be curbed by the fact of not being married, because you never know if marriage will come into a person's life, I know that all parents want their children to be virgins at the altar, but you never know, and I will tell you a very personal and intimate anecdote 🤭🤫🤭🤫.

I lost my virginity when I was in a relationship for 3 years, with a person I loved very much at the time, I did it voluntarily, years after that relationship ended I got sick and I had to have gynecological exams and that's when my mum went into crisis because she thought I was a virgin, so I had to sit down with her and explain, my mum cried as if I was dead, It hurt her and she told me that she had educated me to be a virgin at marriage 😁😜, I had to hug her and practically give her my condolences as if it were a wake, she was depressed and spent days sobbing until she understood that it was my decision and it was my body, I even told her what would happen if I never got married, I would be a virgin until eternity.

Imagine if that had happened, what a boring life with no such experiences 😈😆🤣, today I am a mature woman in my forties, I am not married and I don't see anything on the way that indicates that it will happen, the only thing I have left are pleasant memories of having fully enjoyed that part of my life, thanks to the fact that I live in a society open on the subject and I don't have a religion that I feel judged by.

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