It would be better much so if the description is personalized “My scale preference“ rating from top to bottom. Communication is one thing that never runs old In our world, likely that it always gets better by the day.
But if there's one thing people fail to pay attention to is the understanding aspect of communication.
It takes a whole lot for communication to be rightly understood especially in a first-time conversation or at a trivial moment of conflict. Both aspects of conversing cannot be overly emphasized, while one could be faked, the other would bring out the different shades of a person.
In a table presented with various communication skills, I'll begin my range.
- Honesty:
Honesty comes first for me because of just one reason which could be traced down to the aspect of trust. An honest human would no cause to make ill pretense, somewhat predictable, could be mannerless. Which is very fine with me.
There's absolutely a limited chance of a cunning-minded being when an honest man is involved. They tell you “This is who I am” and careless weather they're accepted or not and I rate that as the finest form of communication skills.
Honesty makes communication easy to understand and detect, it's not forceful but rather straightforward, and as one with such a mind built, id would appreciate a person with similar healthy communication skills.
However, as much as “Honesty” is a vital aspect, I still owe my respect to ”well-mannered” individuals. These folks are quite admirable but less noticeable, especially at a distance. You watch them while they throw those morning greetings immediately after you walk through the gate of your office and while setting off and walking out of the gate with high hopes of the same person wishing you a lovely evening, and even adding a “see you tomorrow with a bright smile. Such a simple gesture at all costs demands an honest commendation.
I regard “manners” as a “pure intention communication skill”. Its absolutely nothing from the usual lifestyle, but the repetitive consistency of same behaviorial approach is the uniqueness that makes it stand out.
And that rightly brings me down to the “Generosity& Humilty” communication skills. Of course, not all generous folks are humble and that's the reason why I would rather tag them up together as it is because first, a humble personality is scarce and a generous man who is equally humbled is a rare gem. Such folks hardly look like the zeros after the figures kept behind their net worth and I guess that should be because of their view of
life.
They would just want to offer the best of their capabilities to the world without expecting a dim in return, sometimes looked down on but the least bothered.
Their personality does the speaking most times for them and the understanding is crystal clear to the eyes too.
Lastly, is the Relationship building skills” ; The brain box who usually talk with an higher level of understanding, because humans differs, I wouldn't dig much into this aspect but would highly commend them for being great listeners. Irrespective of how well they use it, relationship builders are great listeners and responders, thereby creating a more comfortable atmosphere for the other party.
However, relationship builders like I earlier mentioned differs and when some do good with it, others makes a great waves of guilt trips around such method and that keeps the other party at a great disadvantage.
In this science, I would rather settle for honesty if given a choice at all cost, because my world comprises of five words and that is “Keep it Real With Me”. I believe its rather fair to me if that is very much reciprocated.