If she's my partner, I definitely like her. I think she's cute in many ways, and I definitely see her that way 😍
If she's my partner, it's because I like her, and that means I have to like her physically, so from that point of view, of course, physical appearance is important. Therefore, in my case, I take it for granted that my partner will always be beautiful to me.
When she laughs, she's even more beautiful, and if I manage to make her laugh, the happiness is doubled, even though I'm not good at telling jokes. I'm better at making silly jokes, like dancing stupidly and putting on a serious face at the same time, for example. I also like her to make me laugh with harmless jokes, like when she gives me crazy nicknames, such as Crocodile. Only she and I know why 😄 (It's nothing obscene or sexual, just to clarify in case anyone is curious).
It also has nothing to do with this crazy drawing.
Laughter is good when it's synonymous with mutual happiness in couples, whether they make you laugh or you make them laugh. I remember that in my longest relationships, they made me laugh a lot. They were people with a pleasant and ever-present sense of humor. It was fun.
There are also people with a pretty awful sense of humor. They want to make you laugh, but only they laugh, or they make you feel uncomfortable. So, in conclusion, they make fun of you, or they make unpleasant or pointless jokes, such as putting salt in your coffee. Pathetic. 👎
And when it comes to work and money, of course that's important too. Your job should allow you enough free time to devote to your relationship, because if you're away too much, you lose sight of the meaning of the relationship, which is essentially about spending time together.
And money—if there's no money, how can you buy me chocolate? Of course, I also like to give chocolates as gifts. In fact, if I had enough money, I wouldn't mind paying most of the bills, but since that's not the case right now, it's good to have someone to share my life with, and life as we live it in general requires money, whether it's to pay for the internet and stay at home watching movies, etc., etc.
In romantic relationships, many things are important:
- Physical appearance ✅ (You have to like your partner and they have to like you, even if you're very ugly, they have to like you).
- Laughter ✅ (There is no happiness without a smile).
- Work and money ✅ (Free time to spend together and share, and money to buy flowers and chocolates, or whatever your partner likes, among many other things).
Which is more important? 👀 Uhmm, I think all of them. If you remove any one, it could cause an imbalance.
