We always meet different kinds of people; as they say, life has it all some people are good, others not so much; some are positive, others negative and it’s common to encounter all of them at various stages of life. But we must realize that each of them can influence our emotional well-being.
In my case, I respect and can get along with both types of people because I’ve had to deal with them; however, who wants to be around a negative person who sees a problem in everything? I imagine no one. A negative person brings a lot of conflict and always wants to drag you into their problems, bringing those conflicts into your life, and in some way, they can interfere with our well being.
I have a friend who always tries to stay positive and make the best of everything. Unfortunately, her life doesn’t reflect what she wants to convey. She tries to show her desire to be positive, but she doesn’t put that positivity into practice, and when she talks about all her problems and doesn’t do anything about them, it really makes me angry with her, because I don’t know how she wants or plans to change.
I treat negative people the same way I treat positive ones: I listen to them and try to give them advice without letting their negative behavior influence me. When she comes to talk about something negative, I always counter it with positive words; I try to help her see the bright side and how she can change her life, and I always try to reinforce that.
Of course, I’m not Mother Teresa of Calcutta either, and sometimes that way of being wears me out, and yes, I also get tired of telling her the same things over and over again—it’s exhausting and draining. That’s why sometimes I prefer not to see her, because we’re not always in a good mood, and I don’t want to take on other people’s problems besides my own. But there are days when I can help her and listen to her.
The positive people are the ones I always want in my life people who don’t complain and, of course, help me stay in good spirits, positive people who see the world in a better light, and above all, people of faith who know that anything is possible in this life.
Everyone has something good about them both the positive and the negative which is why he treated them both the same. What matters is how we act toward both types of people and don’t let the negative affect us, accepting that we’re all different and that we can be people who help others.
Thanks to friend 
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