Hi guys, I hope you are fine and welcome to the weekend engagement contest. I am going to tell you what is it that makes me feel womenly.
There are a lot of things that women feel which makes them feel womenly. These can be qualities, attributes, habits, the way they lead their lives. For me, it is a very personal and subjective question, and it is not just one thing that makes me feel womenly. There are a blend of things which I personally believe makes me feel womenly.
See, I have studied gender studies, and I know that gender, a big part of it, is constructed socially, and in my society, the feminine gender is constructed in a very conservative and preserved decision. Since our childhood, we are given dolls to play, our rooms are painted pink, our toys are very feminine. Even though we feel masculine energy at the same time, but we are told to refrain from it.
I have always felt that my feminine energy is more dominant in me than the masculine energy. If I were to pick something that makes me feel very womenly, it is my emotional connections with people. I am not saying that men do not have emotional connections in relationships with people, but I am very much emotional and connected to the people I love. Be it my parents, friends, or siblings, and in my society particularly, it is very commonly said that men do not express their feelings very often like women do. Men do not express their emotions like women do.
So, I am very expressive about my emotions. Whenever I feel low, excited, happy, sad, or whatever the feelings are, the person beside me or the person who knows me will clearly know that I am going through those feelings or feeling those emotions. So, this is a thing that makes me feel womenly, very womenly.
I also do a lot of shopping and cooking. These two things are normally associated with women. But, I really love cooking good food and feeding it to the people I love. Nurturing is something that women have been doing since forever.
Other than that, it is my dressing. I dress up really well, and I am attracted to different colours. I have seen and noticed that men do not wear different colours. Their colours, the way they dress up, is very monotonous. But I have noticed in my society that women who have female dominant energy are always wearing very vibrant and colourful dresses.
One of the very feminine traits or a quality or attribute is that nurturing and caregiving roles. Ever since my childhood, I had a very nurturing aura. I like to take care of people and things. I had so many pets growing up. I have a cat, and the cat is so sick of me because I am always clung to it, always annoying it, nurturing it, taking care of it, feeding it. And I guess these are something kind of nurturing role which all the mothers have.
I am not sure that I have expressed my feelings in a controlled or clear way, but this is how I feel about being womenly. Thank you so much for visiting my blog. I hope you had fun. I have taken these pictures with my cellphone at different places. Do share your thoughts and have a nice weekend.
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