The word love is relative and can happen unexpectedly. A lot of people believe love doesn't exist and to them, it is illusionary and untrue. My interest in love was ignited during my high school days of reading romantic novels. I loved reading romantic novels and would always imagine myself in the scene. Those novels, funny as it may be, actually help me set some standards of what to expect in my journey of love.
The Problem
The issue in 97% of these novels is that the main characters are always portrayed as very handsome or beautiful, tall and with very attractive physical attributes that would make anyone droll at first sight.
That's not always the case in reality so you better snap out of it
I forgot it's a novel, a fiction and the author goal is for you to have a great time reading and visualizing. Whenever I think back at how I almost lost my husband because of having the wrong expectations, I just laugh. It's funny now because I can clearly understand why I did some obviously stupid things.
Even when I clearly saw all his amazing qualities, I was blinded by my infatuation of someone else, focusing on the physical attributes I fantasize from my romantic novels.
All it took was covid-19 to reset my brain and help me reevaluate my decisions. It was the toughest decision ever. Picking up the phone, calling with heart racing, not knowing what to expect from the other end because I knew I had messed up big time. Difficult as it was, it was the greatest move that brought me to my destination of love and happiness.
Yes, I was indecisive, but today I'm a million times sure. My husband is the best gift for me and he's far better than the characters from my novels. With him, the word love came alive, the burning desire to explore together, to fight, win and loose together and it all made more sense... with him.
Never stop finding love. It is real only when you believe in it.
Open your heart wide and let love find you.
