It's something I worked out when I was exploring the feminine -- something I have ran from all my life.

You let people see you as they want to see you. It helps with relationships in general. There's always something about us that people like. Let them own it.

I broke down in McDonalds when I was a younger man, and got the mechanic to come fetch my car. He thought it was hilarious because he thought I was hiding it from my wife -- ever since then he dropped his guard, high fived me, and helped me out when needed.

I wasn't hiding it from her -- but he didn't need to know that haha.

I don't use it for evil though, even although I could!