First, he takes on the responsibility of caring for your ailing grandfather, and then he pulls a fast one by having a child with a "nurse" who was supposed to be helping out. Talk about adding insult to injury

I can understand why you've been left feeling traumatized and scarred by the whole situation. It's not every day that you find out your father has been lying to you and the rest of your family.

I'm glad you were able to share this story and I hope you're able to find some peace and healing from the trauma you've experienced.