A mother is a very influential figure in her child's life, from the time they are born until death separates them,as a child, I was acutely aware of this. A mother is a very influential parental figure, but we must not forget the role of a father in the household.They are figures who continue to complement each other in the family, what usually happens is that the father figure will be busier working to earn a living for his family, while the mother figure is often busy with housework.
I have a short story that happened a few years ago, and it's about me and my mom,and this is not just an ordinary story because from this experience I realized how important the role of parents is in their child's life, and how unfortunate a child is who does not respect and appreciate his parents, this experience succeeded in changing me from a naughty child to a better child. This story happened when I was 14 years old, that night I asked my mother for permission to go out to play at night with my friends, and I was so surprised when I heard my mother's answer that she did not allow me, even though usually my mother would allow me as long as I had a clear reason, but that night was different my mother's face looked so serious, but because my age at that time was still too young so I couldn't think long and what happened was that I became angry and there was a little argument between me and my mother.I spoke in a slightly loud tone which made my mother sad, until finally I immediately lowered my head with a face full of annoyance.
At that time my mother immediately discussed it with my father, and my father immediately asked my intentions and goals, I wanted to go out at night to play with my friends and at that time I had also promised my friends. In the end my father gave me permission but with several messages and warnings, I saw my mother's face which still looked sad and a little scared,but I didn't understand at that time.
When I left the house my feelings immediately changed to being uncomfortable as if something was forcing me not to leave the house that night, but I didn't care about those feelings and preferred to have fun with my friends. Exactly at 11 pm when my friends and I were on our way home, when we arrived at a city intersection suddenly an incident that we didn't want happened, we collided with a motorbike that was going quite fast, but luckily there were no fatalities in the incident. My friend and I were immediately taken to the hospital, I was hospitalized for about 2 weeks.
A month later, I was able to walk again and do some things normally. Feeling guilty, I tried to ask my mother again about why she wouldn't let me go out that night. My mother said that she had a really bad feeling that night, as if she already knew something bad was going to happen, but I didn't listen to her at the time. Hearing my mother's statement, I immediately became sad and immediately apologized profusely to her. At that moment, I immediately realized how great a mother's love is for her child. That night, I should have been more open and had a good discussion without having to speak in a big tone,i realized that and I promised to change to be better in front of her.
This is a short story from me but this story contains a very deep meaning.