Yes, we haven't spoken for a long time. I followed your story. You seem to have made an important discovery: that people do not play by their own rules. For me, the question would be, in the online chat discord for example, whether you care about these strangers who label you and at the same time show how superficial and how little they express themselves according to their own codes. I don't think it's worth chatting with strangers who are not interested in you, not interested in your interjections or questions. Or how do you see it? It obviously has less meaning for them than for you.

The fact that people start googling you and form an opinion of you as a result only further testifies to their desire to reach a preconceived opinion without being the least bit interested in a more expansive exchange. For me personally, that was the reason not to go on the chats, I tried it out and judged it to be too insubstantial. Which is not to say you should do the same. It is up to you to let others benefit from your knowledge, but I personally see it as a waste of time to want to share with people something they have no desire to know about. Of course, you are also right to want to point out a general tendency that has spread in online forums: a high intolerance of anything non-stereotypical.

Actually, it's downright tragic to take all these labels seriously, you can basically only take them with humour. But even humour is not understood by everyone.

Anyway, I think you have an unusual way of communicating and I wouldn't dream of "disliking" or "muting" you because of it. I think that's nonsense. But I don't do the programming of a platform.