Recently I met one of my friend who work in the hospital as a nurse, and we had a good conversation since we have not met for quite some time ,so we have a lot to catch up. And as usual the chat was nice and so intense since we share some of our life stories.
Then from her story I learn that not all of the people know about courtesy, not even from a person with a good education, or now being an educator or teacher, because they think that they are important enough to make a call for help in a very good time of the day.
I know (she also knows it very well) that being a social person, we have to help each other, especially with her being a nurse, some of her friends and distant relatives tend to ask for her opinion and help, which is fine if it is done nicely and well-mannered.
But she also said that some of them can be irritating to the core, like calling in the middle of the night, just for a small consultation that if they uses the common sense can be solved easily. Or if they think it is soo urgent, then they should visit the nearest clinic for a realtime and factual inspection so that they can be treated well and fast. but they decided it was better to call someone in the middle of the night who couldn't give a good diagnosis or help since she couldn't see it directly.
I mean, you have to use yourself as the measure. what if someone is giving you a call in the middle of the night, during your rest, just for a small talk that can be done in the morning? Wouldn't it be so rude and annoying? But apparently, those kinds of things are not really common sense, so people just think that they are the most important and can disturb someone else's rest.
It such a shocking story that I heard from her, as I never thought someone would do those kinds of thing, but apparently I was wrong.