The blogging life sometimes is not easy, you have to be really in a good and creative mood for you to write well. Most of us have this creative at day and some at night. I'm part of the night workers, I do most of my writings at night.
There are some days when after creating some contents I find it hard to sleep, I don't know whether it was because I was used to writing at night or it was another thing I haven't discovered yet, I don't know if my fellow night bloggers also experienced it.
Sometimes I spend my sleepless nights thinking about all the things that happened in the past. I thought about how I got to where I am now, the people that left and those who were still there with me. So one night I also thought about my friends during my childhood and most of them I was a older than them...
The Comparison
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Like I said most of my friends back then I was older than them. My Dad my Mom would keep comparing me with other kids that are friends with their age and look out me here making friends with people that I'm older than. They keep laughing me anytime I'm with them but I never mind them.
It was not that I could not make friends with my age mate, it was because I didn't like the lifestyle my mates where living back then around my neighborhood, they were living waywardly which a shy girl girl we easily be influenced by them, so I decided not to join them.
Luckily a day came when the bad news broke to us, it was one of my age mate that my parents was comparing with me is pregnant, she got pregnant at the age of 16 at there was tension everywhere, her parents have to send her away from the neighborhood and we did not see the girl for a while.
After what happened I was expecting my parents to say something about the comparison earlier made, but they never said a word, I knew they have learnt their lesson not to compare me again with any one or not to question my choice without knowing the reason I made the choice.
I learnt a lesson from what happened during my childhood, never compare yourself with anybody.
Thank you.