Compassion is an important aspect of helping or counseling. To be an effective counselor, one must possess this trait. I agree with Wayne Mack when he said that compassion is not just an emotion; it is, in fact, a matter of choice. Personally, there are times when I am on the verge of lacking compassion, and it is my choice whether I will still show or express it. Even though it is hard, by God’s grace I am able to do so. I also realize that in this way, I see my limitations and my need for Jesus. Times like this becomes an avenue and opportunity to experience Christlikeness.
RE: The Person-Oriented Paradigm: Developing a Helping Relationship