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Adversities are bound to occur in everyone’s life and how one responds towards them can define them and strength. With the way things are going now around us we just have to face it but today I'll be sharing my experience on how I handle and face challenges.
Anytime I'm faced with a challenge , I don't just rush to do anything I first of all stay so calm. When I stress about the situation or panic it always leads yo me either making mistakes or decisions I might regret later. My first step is usually to take a very deep breath because there's how the burden can come on you and so heavy that you don't even know how to handle it better at that time. But when you are calm you will be able to assess the situation and understand what's going on clearly.
When you are calm you will be able to define the whole situation. Try to know what is exactly the challenge and what and what happened that brought about the whole issue and what's the effect of the whole thing. Once this whole step is carried out there are tendencies that solutions will be found.
What I also do is that I go to people that have experience same issues and came out of it strong. I ask to know so I can get insight on how to handle the issues, I know sometimes what may work for me might not be what worked for the other person but just having a clue might make it easier.
Your brain has to be put to work at some point , meaning you have to look for solutions yo what you are facing. Never wait for any man to give preferred solutions for your problem before you get up to do anything about it. Use your brain that's why I started by saying you need to be calm so you know what to do and youll be steady. Its not a crime to involve others, but fo not wait for people.
Don't just prefer solutions, do something. Take actions don't just speak with the mouth, think with your brain but also act towards it. To even help you, set deadlines. Doing all this will be of maximum help to be in control of the situation. When you don't make progress, everything is just at a stand still. Quit PROCRASTINATION.
Alot of things will change, learn to adjust because things will never be the way it was before. And also check id you are making progress. Once youve gone through the whole process, a person like me what I normally do is to sit and reflect. Ask yourselves questions like: What has this taught me? What worked and what didn't? It might serve for future purposes. And in all you do carry your people along, you need that support and encouragement.
