A few days ago, we heard about the news of the death of the CEO of one of the banks in our country, Access Bank precisely, and a few days after the death, Access Holdings in their official letter announced the death of Mr. Wigwe and in that letter stated in their last paragraph that they are already discussing a replacement for him.
Although we all feel sad that he, his wife, and his son lost their lives in a plane crash but then, even though he was gone, just a few days ago, the management is already looking for a replacement even if he was a good person and did a great job holding the forte of Access bank.
Truth is, if you don't learn to put yourselves first when you are on earth after you are gone, nobody will help do that for you, because you are your only best friend. So learn not to joke with YOU!
It doesn't stop you from helping your friends and loved ones, it doesn't stop you from working hard to keep them afloat but don't always fail to take care of yourself. Yeah, you love your family but learn to love YOU so much more and make sure to put yourself first in everything, make sure to come first in everything.
Always put yourself first, take care of yourself, learn to stop listening to what society has to say about how you should live or not, and stop listening to the dictate of society because they wouldn't put you first, everyone out there is looking for something that will favour them all so choose yourself, be self-centered, if that is what it will take you to choose or our yourself first above everyone and everything.
Create your happiness, and put yourself first, if you have the choice of making life comfortable for yourself, please go ahead, don't think twice, and don't think about what people will say, because if you die trying to please your fellow humans, they will live a better life without you.