Helping families and friends is one of the most helpful and natural things to do. But when you start doing or making progress in life there's this one thing that you want to do for these people around you and that is fine. Maybe your brother, your sister looking for a job, your friends. You will love to put them through. But I feel like the best thing to do is to bring them to everybody sound like a real situation.
But we help them but they are not but they don't help you. But in reality that is not always our returns. If we want to help your loved ones you can support them with money and what they can afford but support them with your connection recommend things for them who might hire them or teach them how to start something for themselves.
But whatever you do don't deploy them to your business unless they are professionals in that your field. Why? When emotions enter business logical often way out of the door. Family and friends usually express special treatment from you. Always you find it very difficult to want to correct them or when they make mistakes and you may even hesitate to want to fire them because when they are underperforming because they are part of you they are part of you or they are close to you.
Instead of ruining that business you start managing the business with emotions and this can lead to a downfall and frustration at last. So before long you'll notice that your business keeps slowing down deadline admits money can get missing and everything begins to go down.
So if things go so that you won't lose just your money you lose relationship and what can happen you will not be unable to help people anymore you might even become the one in need. So it is better to apply those who have professional skills in your business and they are good at it.
So let your family and friends remain your loved ones not your family and friends and they are not the ones that are coming to you. Employees that can spoil your business keep business and relationship out of anything that is how you protect yourself.
Remember the goal is not to carry everyone on your back but to build a strong legacy that will last for a long time. So by keeping your business early you'll be in that position to help families and friends not just one but for many years to come.
So sometimes love means i can't hire you but i can still help you the other way. This is not selfishness that is wisdom and that is life.